My Personal Tips to Flirting with Women
Let’s talk about how to flirt with a woman. When you’re first getting started, flirting can be a bit awkward, but with a bit of practice, it’s really quite fun.
In fact let me say something before we dive into this. Flirting is supposed to be enjoyable. Don’t take it to seriously and don’t yell out creepy comments to the girl since that’s just not fun. That’s just a waste of time that won’t get you anything.
Don’t forget that flirting should communicate two messages. First it will broadcast a sexual interest in her. And it should also leave the woman feeling better about herself.
This is how you should flirt with a woman:
The first part of flirting is to let her know that you are attracted to her. The reason behind this is that it lets her know that you want to be more than friends without being direct about it. The most effective way to get this point across to her is to tell her that she is sexy. Not pretty. Not beautiful. But specifically sexy!
You can just come out of nowhere though and tell her that she’s sexy. If you do this you’ll be just the same as all the annoying men that she just rolls her eyes at. To avoid this we take the second part of flirting into consideration.
Make sure that flirting becomes something that the woman likes. You can never tell what sort of mood a girl is in (and thus how your attempt at flirting will go over) unless you have a conversation with her. Have her contribute a little bit of herself to the conversation. Get her to tell you what she thinks about something. Then use that as material to flirt with her.
Here is an example of how you want to flirt. If she just finished studying in Paris, ask her to tell you something in French. Then afterward, say something like “Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore. It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.”
Did you notice? I just told her that I found her sexy and complimented her on something she shared.
Now she could keep this going and flirt back. She could drive me nuts by whispering to me in French all night or anything else for that matter. It is that simple.
Another technique is to try using the power of pushing and pulling. You begin by telling her something that appears like you are pushing her away. Then you follow that up by immediately pulling her back in with a compliment. This is a perfect way to keep her guessing and make you look like a fun and unique guy.
Now let’s have a better look at that last example.
“Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore.” — This portion is the first push. It comes across a little like an insult.
“It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.” — This is to second part, the pull. You take the initial rejection and flip in around into a compliment.
This is how you flirt with a girl. This is actually really easy once you’ve done it a few times and it seems natural. But once you get it you are good as gold. So get out there and meet some women.
If you enjoyed this article, also check out How to Flirt with a Girl, How to Start a Conversation with a Girl, and Review of David DeAngelo’s Doubld Your Dating.
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