I Never Thought Psychological Methods Would Get My Wife Back, But They Did
When I broke up with my wife the last thing I thought would happen was for me to get my wife back. Sometimes strange things happen.
I was lost, literally. I just didn’t know what to do. After what seemed like an eternity looking for info on how to get over my ex, I accidentally came across a book on how to get her back.
Now I’m the biggest cynic in the world. I would bet on this info being a load of old bull. I decided to throw forty bucks away and give it a try.
There was an extra bonus with the book that explored the psychology of how our minds work every day, and how you can get people to do things with little suggestions.
I immediately connected with some of these psychological tricks. Having used some on my kids when they were just plain stubborn to do something.
We use reverse psychology an awful lot without even knowing. Imaging trying to get a reluctant friend to go to the gym.
They don’t like the idea so you lay a line on them like “if you aren’t physically capable, that’s fine”. They usually return with something like “of course I’m capable, when do we start”.
That’s psychology in action there. You used their own sense of pride against them. The same type of subtle methods can be used to woo your ex round.
I got my head together and left my ex a voice message. I planted the seed of curiosity in the message as curiosity plays a huge part in our lives. Marry curiosity with a bit of psychology and we’re talking magic powers!
My ex wife called me back within 24 hours and she actually believed it was her that got back in contact. She called to ask how I was doing. Of course it was me that had planned this with the message I left the previous day.
I didn’t ask her to call me when I left the message. But I was pretty confident she would call me. And I was right.
It was smooth sailing for us after this point. She was sure it was her that made the first move and I wasn’t going to tell her that it was me.
There’s me starting out with a view to getting over her. A complete reversal had me looking to get my ex back. And it worked pretty good for me.
Although if it hadn’t had worked out for me I would have gotten the refund on the book and gone to a game somewhere!
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