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Get Ex Back Without Saying I’m Sorry

It is often a mistake lots of people make.  When trying to get their ex back, they say I’m sorry a thousand times.  This doesn’t work and can drive your ex further away.  Learn more about getting your ex back here.

Instead of apologizing endlessly, there are a few things to do that will be much more effective.  Starting with, don’t say I’m sorry if you did nothing wrong.  If your ex just isn’t that into you any more, maybe you did nothing wrong.  Apologizing can make you sound pathetic.

Next, if you did something wrong that you need to apologize for, that’s a good thing to understand.  To get your ex back, you need to understand what caused the break, and if it was something you did, you better be ready to apologize for it.

Before you ever get around to apologizing, do a few powerful things first.  To begin with, let’s say you committed adultery.  You cheated on your ex.  They kicked you out and are feeling a lot of betrayal and anger.  You can learn more about Get Ex Back specfics here.

Before you say you’re sorry a million times, do these smart steps first!  Own up to what you did.  Admit it.  Your ex needs to know at a basic emotional level that you know what you did was wrong.  So admit it.  Don’t justify or try to explain your actions.

Next, get them to vent.  Before you ever say I’m sorry, get your ex to tell you how they feel about what you did.  Let them get their bad feelings off their chest.  If they want to yell at you or cry or attack you, you take it.  You don’t argue or defend yourself.  You just let them vent.  Venting releases their negative feelings some.

If you can do both of those things, admit what you did wrong and get them to vent, you are in great shape. Now, when you apologize, they can hear you.  Now you’re I’m sorry has a chance of being heard.  And being accepted.

So don’t make a hundred apologies.  Make one, after you do those two things first.  If you do this right, you can often get your ex back in hours instead of weeks or months.  Go here for a free course on Loving Relationship Advice.

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